He takes me to a great motel and pays half(since i called). Its worth my time,But i need it more than once a month. Help me out is he trying to be in control or what? He says he doesn't have another woman or anything and i believe him i just need some real advice.(Dr. Phil are you out there?)LOL He's not married this i know for sure!! Franksprung i like your answer!How do i get him to open up to me about what he's feeling?